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The Lesson They Taught Her

They took what they could—
comfort, certainty,
even the illusion
that she was wanted.

They expected her to beg.
Shrink.
Crumble.

They believed control was permanent.
They didn’t realize
you can’t trap someone
who learns to live without a net.

When you give a person nothing,
you teach them they have nothing to lose.
And once they know that—
they have everything to gain.

They thought silence would humble her.
It sharpened her.
They thought distance would erase her.
It clarified her.
They thought fear would keep her near.
It taught her to walk through fire without flinching.

They didn’t build her.
They simply made sure
she’d be built elsewhere—
quietly,
deliberately,
from everything they withheld.

She didn’t ruin their legacy.
They handed her the match.
She lit it with truth
and didn’t look back.

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This poem is a fictional and notional work of creative expression. It is intended solely as an artistic exploration of universal human experiences such as control, resilience, and self-determination. It does not describe or refer to any actual person, living or deceased, or any real event. Any perceived resemblance is purely coincidental and unintended. No factual statements, allegations, or implications are being made. This work is protected as original creative expression under applicable laws governing free speech and artistic works.

© 2025 Alexa Daskalakis

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